Countless men have bought lingerie for their wife or girlfriend only to have it wind up in the bottom of her lingerie drawer after wearing it once, if at all. If you are looking to buy the kind of lingerie you'll love to see, and that the lady in your life will love wearing, look no further! Here are four tips for purchasing the king of lingerie that you will both enjoy.
- Before you shop, check your motives.
For women, romance begins long before you ever enter the bedroom. If you've noticed a decline in sexual intimacy in your relationship and believe purchasing lingerie will fix it, you may need to reconsider your options. Buying lingerie for a woman that is not feeling comfortable with you could have a negative impact on your romantic situation. If you are simply looking to surprise the woman in your life with something beautiful that will make her feel special and show her how much you are thinking of her, you are definitely buying her lingerie for the right reasons and it won't go unrewarded.
- Pay attention to what she likes.
If your girl prefers a certain style of bras or panties, take note and look for opportunities to buy her similar styles that she won't feel completely uncomfortable in. It is ok to branch out slightly and pick something that is a little different, but if the woman in your life has a tendency to wear waist-high panties, she likely won't be comfortable taking a sudden leap into wearing thongs. Instead, you should purchase something with a decent amount of coverage that is still sexy. She will appreciate the gesture and the next time you purchase new lingerie for her, she will likely be more comfortable taking it a step further and wearing an even more revealing style.
- Purchase the basics in the right size.
Before you begin purchasing kinky body suits or ultra-seductive teddys, find out her bra and panty size and purchase her a beautiful new bra and panty set. It may not be ultra-exciting for you, but it is a safe way to test the waters and see what she is comfortable in. Plus you will get extra-points when she realizes you were thoughtful enough to purchase her lingerie in exactly the right size.
- Make her feel beautiful.
It is a good idea to always search for opportunities to make the woman you love feel special and beautiful, but it is especially important when she is stripped down to the lingerie you purchased for her. Take your time adoring her and her body when she wears the lingerie you gave to her. Remember, that women particularly need verbal affirmation, so tell her exactly what you think when you see her looking sexy for you.
As tricky as it may be to purchase lingerie for your woman, it is a skill that is worth learning. It can strengthen your bond, revitalize your sex life, and it's a great way to let her know how irresistible you find her. When your woman knows she is loved and appreciated by you, your relationship can truly soar to new heights.